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It's just a question, geez. I don't know what both reasons for it being sad to you was, so I was asking if one of them might've been because you didn't get to experience it. Apparently I didn't understand that you weren't talking about yourself, so now I have a different perspective about what those two things might be. I don't demand that my questions be answered, so just tell me if you don't want to answer or don't have an answer and I'll let it be, and chances are I'd still let it be if it was ignored.
I don't like causing arguments, but I am prone to it when it comes to defending myself or something I've said and stand by. I don't understand how my question could have started an argument without another argument-prone person fueling it. I'm not saying you're argument-prone, I just don't understand you very much. Maybe you can tell me how my question made you think I was starting an argument and I'll try to avoid doing it again.
By the way, I agree with you that an argument over my question would not be constructive. If I don't see an argument to be constructive in some way, then I try to stop the argument. In this case I think if there still is an argument, it wouldn't be about the question and thus might have a different value for constructiveness... Not that I would promote its continuation.
I think we just need to focus on understanding each other if only for the purpose of avoiding further arguments.
One more thing. About the other argument, it might be about the logic of my one-liner, but I mostly see it as having educational and comedical value. If you don't see it that way and you want it to stop, just let me know. I don't see any point in continuing such an argument if it wasn't interesting for both sides in some way.
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